Monday, November 3, 2014

Middle School Memories - by Justin & Tammy Bowman

 
This picture was taken at a Jr. High (5th-8th grade) 5th Quarter and it has been on our minds and hearts ever since. 5th Quarters take place during the fall after home football games at Redeemer UMC in DeWitt, MI. They allow for a great time of food, fun and lots of friends! There is a time of prayer (after the long list of rules and expectations) but there is no Bible lesson or reading….just a bunch of crazy, energetic and sometimes smelly middle school  kids with limited self-control having a blast! This picture captures a pretty cool moment for us; the first time we’ve been surrounded by over 200 5th-8th graders at Redeemer church!

We must admit, it is rather amazing to think about that number, but it has been so much more than just a number. These are preteens and teens. These are students. These are both Christians and non-Christians. These are people who have a heavenly Father ready to have a relationship with them. As with all people, not just teens, developing a trusting relationship with someone who loves Jesus is what often opens them up to learning about Jesus. And that’s exactly what we want….for students who do not know Jesus to get connected with someone who does love Jesus, somehow and somewhere.

We later learned that there were close to 25% of the Herbison Woods and Junior High student population at Redeemer that Friday night. That just blows our minds!  Seriously, if you think about what that means and the potential influence that can have in the schools and community, it is astounding. That also means that 25% of the parents of 5th-8th grade students were ok with their child attending a church event. And this is just one of the many opportunities available to them. 

So far this school year students have:  Prayed for their schools, friends, sports, teachers and families at their schools’ flag pole for See You At The Pole. Attended Christian Education on Sunday Mornings and Tuesday Night Youth Group to learn and grow in their faith, while bringing numerous friends with them.  Received new Bibles and started to read them on their own. They are serving in the nursery, on the Puppet Team and at the Halloween Party. They have attended the Halloween Party and Fright Night on the Farm while also inviting and bringing new friends with them.

We sometimes get glimpses of the Holy Spirit working through the students and events….like when a child doesn’t quite fit in at school and can come and fit in at church, or when things are rough at home and they can escape for a little while and take a break from thinking about it. When a student is angry or depressed and can come enjoy themselves for a bit and gain a little bit of hope. When parents are feeling overwhelmed and they bring their child to Christian Education so they are able to attend worship and focus on God. For us, when we are having a bad day, the students seem to somehow reenergize and refresh us just by being themselves.

It’s not the events or opportunities that stretch, challenge, and grow these students though. It’s the Holy Sprit moving in their lives that brings forth the change and growth and leads them to inspire others. Each time a parent brings their child to an event, they are delivering the message that church is important and God is important, even if it means missing a practice/game or maybe choosing not to play on the team at all. Each time an adult agrees to serve at an event or lead a class, they are delivering the message that the students are important enough for their time, even when it’s sometimes outside of their comfort zone. Each time someone opens their home for students they are saying I trust you and that you are more valuable than my things. Each time we spend money on events and offer opportunities for the students, it’s the congregation that is supporting them and delivering the message that they are worth every penny.

We can all remember the time we spent as middle school students.  Each of us have good and bad memories from that period of our lives. What we are aiming to create are positive memories for these particular students involved in this ministry.  Several times throughout the year we hear stories of how students have felt welcome at Redeemer.  We often hear that students feel at home and how they can just let their guard down, have fun and be themselves while at a Redeemer event.  Having these types of memories attached to a church such as Redeemer is a very important goal of ours.  We pray that later in the life of these students, as they perhaps drive past Redeemer or another church as they are searching for a church home, they will remember the times when they were welcomed and encouraged and supported by the people of Redeemer.  It is our hope that these memories will make them comfortable as opposed to intimidated by entering a church building as they get older, and that these memories will be a key step in them continuing to build a relationship with the love and life of Jesus Christ. 

We are so thankful for the Redeemer family and the many ways they continuously support the Middle School and Jr. High ministry!  And we are forever grateful for the blessing it has been in our lives.

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